Comments Policy

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Comment Policy

Your comments are welcome here @ Tibesar Archives. We encourage you to share your family memories and family documents and photos. With that said, not all comments get approved and here’s why…

“Post your comments on others’ Blogs and get links to your site!” Easy, right? There is even software to plaster your “posts” on Blogs across the Web with minimal effort. Well, as we say in Virginia — when it comes to the Tibesar Archives — foe-ged-aboud-it!

What many seem to not understand is that Blogs are about opinions and conversations not about one-sided desires for self-promotion. In the almost rabid quest to attain incoming one-way links to their Web sites, Blogs are being hit with generic dribble from marketers that serve no purpose other than reflecting the commenter’s desire (and lack of tech savvy) to gain a coveted one-way inbound link.

The Tibesar Archives Blog is moderated. By being moderated this means that any comments submitted need to be approved before being added for public viewing. This is a true archive for the Tibesar Family — and we are very persnickety about what gets added to the Blog by those we don’t know. It’s called quality control.

A site visitor’s comments do not see the light of day on the Blog unless they meet the following criteria:

• The comment must include your name; at the very least your first name — typed properly is a plus. Put your keywords in this field and we hit delete. If your post is relevant and specific and you don’t use your name you will get a request via a P.S. at the bottom of our reply to use your name on future comments. Continue to not use your name; delete.
• This is a Family related Blog — type as though you get that. Type like a grade schooler with poor grammar, typos and incomplete sentences, all small case and chances are your message is lost in your inability to communicate properly. Delete.
• The comment must be specific to the post you are commenting on — and we mean specific. General blah-blah-blah doesn’t cut it — comments must include detailed verbiage clearly about the post in question or it gets marked as spam. Comments like “I see your point of view but don’t agree…” without telling us specifically why you disagree, tells us you are just link baiting. If you disagree with our commentary, please do give us your POV in a professional and coherent manner. We will respond back with the same courtesy and clarity.
• Compliments are futile. Yes, we all love to hear how great our site is and having our egos stroked by site visitors. But our ego does not fall prey to those who try to compliment their way into gaining a link to their site from our Blog with empty praise. Posts that are genuine compliments with no URL noted are those we take as sincerely genuine. Only those compliments combined with thoughtful specific commentary will have a chance of being approved for viewing by Tibesar Archives visitors. It’s all about the conversation!
• Links within or after your comments are not allowed unless they are pointing to a specific resource that is relevant to the conversation. Promotional links or signature files will be edited out before a comment is considered for approval.

Many “comments” each day are marked as spam and deleted because they do not meet the basic criteria above. All of which are common sense with a dash of courtesy combined with an understanding of the venue in which you are participating.

News Flash to Blog Commenters — Commenting on Blogs is certainly a great way to gain exposure. When you contribute your comments, it is an opportunity to show your personality, share your expertise and gain exposure for your Web site. But only when done properly and for all the right reasons integrating courtesy and common sense when doing so.

If you don’t have anything of definitive value to contribute and don’t want to make the efforts mentioned above — then don’t waste your time or that of Blog owners.